So if sex is the secret than oral sex must be as well. If you consider oral sex, sex at all. Remember Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky?  His claim that oral isn’t sex was highly criticized by many people in the public. The shame came from his marital status – married. But is oral really sex? I don’t know.

Came across this very silly song, The Penis Song, by Macklemore. Tell me what you think. I thought it was A-OK . Can’t go wrong when you’re talking about your schlong!

Who doesn’t love sex, right? And who doesn’t love to talk about it? Sex is everywhere. It’s on TV, in the movies, on bookshelves or e-book advertisements. And why shouldn’t it be? Sex sells. The common adage we hear. With roots beginning in the prostitution business to all of media’s ways to get sex into our home. It’s big business and it’s fun! That is, for those of us able to participate in it. Unfortunately,  it isn’t all as simple as that.  Really, how could a beautiful union between two people that is also engaged in just for fun but also used as an act of violence against both men and women, be purely simple. Ah, the complications of everything in life. But all complexity is not a bad thing.

Why is sex the secret? Divorce is on the rise along with affairs, more equally now with women cheating nearly as often as men. I often wonder why that is and feel certain it is a solvable problem. Sex is an important part of a union between two people yet is overlooked or the man criticized for wanting yoo much. But what if sex is the secret to happiness in sustaining a relationship.